Psychology subject for today!& token of appreciations to frens!

entitled as GRIEVES & LOSS

do you people know that grieves that were not expressed could later erupt and shall lead to severe health problem and able to alter a person's attitude and behaviour?

loss which cause grieves shall inclusive of loss of an aspect of life and the most common grieves is on loss of significant others.

every people who endures loss shall first undergo a phenomenon which were called as bereavement...

grieves is a necessity and it is an adaptive response that normal people should have shown in every loss they had.

the reaction as explained by KUBLER ROSS theory is that
human shall undergo 5 phases: denial, anger, depression and aceptance.

on denial stage people tend to response to believe,whereby they seems to incapable to accept the reality.
at that stage in personal opinion, people around should be patient to handle such situation. Where on my experience, AWE,WANNIE,KECHIK,DUAN,POPO & QUEN were those who were at my side!

on the second stage is when a person started to expresses their anger...this happened when the reality had become clearer to their view...they tend to direct the anger to others as well...and at this critical stage, people should aware that being in such temper or shall i say sudden temper strikes out would lead to hatred by people around!so i should thank ASYMAL,AWE,NADHU,NIGGER,POPO & QUEN again for being supportive and never failes to comfort!

next is when a person starts to bargain where the word "what if" comes in scene...most frequent.People seeks bargain to avoid loss and it is a way to express guilt or anger...and so again,thanks to AWE,NIGGER,POPO& QUEN and to MUEZ...they always there to advice,listen,comfort and cheers me up!

depression hiked up when a person is at total grieves upont their loss...they grieves over what has happened and that is irreverseble.here...i felt all annoyed to almost everyone except POPO,QUEN,NIGGER & MUEZ!

acceptance come in mind when a person totaly moved on..

YOU KNOW?SOME HEARTLESS PEOPLE SHALL JUST JUMP FROM STAGE 1 TO 5TH DIRECTLY ESP PEOPLE WHO WE CALL FUCK-ER AND BIATCH(islamic version i think??)

WeLL...WHAT'VE GONE TRU IS WHAT THEY CALL DISENFRANCHIESD,WHERE AM AT LOST THAT CANNOT BE OPENLY ACKNOWLEDGE AND MIGHT PROBABLY BE A DYSFUNCTION GRIEVE AS WELL WHERE GRIEVE OF LOSS THAT DO NOT RESULT IN RECONCILATION OF FEELINGS CAUSING OVERACTIVITY WITHOUT SENSE OF LOSS AND ALTERATION IN RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS...

these all explains everything clearly...

so am a normal person! thought that i've gone nuts!